Five Elements toward a strong marriage

People are confuse with my graph posted yesterday.  They ask how does a marriage work?

5 Elements

Metal          number          1
Water         number          2
Fire            number           3
Wood         number          4
Earth           number          5
Metal          number          6
Water         number          7
Fire             number          8
Water         number           9

The bottom triangle in the graph indicate comparable or broken marriage. The rest indicate our weakness, strong point and our stand for the future.
I hope with this information you will understand better.