Baby Dumping as murder

People like Shahrizat are too lazy to find a solution or even bother to understand why many babies are dumped. To her once the publicity job is over she goes to her lover and get fuck and then home sweet home to be a mother and wife to her family. Things are not that simple given that she holds a Ministry Post. Women, Family and Community Development. Does she knows what that means?

For every problem there is a solution but sometimes a solution can only be found if we work as a team. Baby dumping cannot be solved by classifying as murder if the babies were to die. These women resort to dumpling their babies for many reasons plus they need somebody to listen to their problems and treat them as human being.

My mum being the principal of a girls’ school has many responsibilites. One of them is being able to listen and offer comforting words to the girls when problems arises. Girls from that generation is no differences from today’s society. Since small I have been a watcher. I listen and understand and see how my mum went about helping these girls and their family. We have been taught never, never to look down on them. We treated them like family. My house was open 24 hours before 7 eleven came up.

That is how I got to know about Mahani Daim’s first marriage well before I met Tun Daim.

But today I want to talk about Tun Daim’s daughter Asnida Daim and Guprit Singh.

Both these girls came from broken home and abusive parents.

Daim and Noriani separated when they found comfort outside their marriage. But before the separation Asnida Daim had to endured both physical and mental abuse from both parents. Basically no one wanted her nor love her. But she was the bargaining tool used extensively by Noriani. Every time she loses to Daim, Asnida was put up as a shield and Daim would eventually back down and let her have her own way. Sad to say all Daim’s wives uses the same method. That is his KARMA.

So when Asnida came back to Malaysia for her summer holiday she had wild sex in my house and uses the tudung by day. To her sex means love. Getting rid of the baby is no problem to her because America legalizes abortion. But her years being abuse had not disappeared till today. Though 40+ she still hold grudges within her heart. Hopefully she does not instill that hatred to her children. To her husband Rashid I feel sorry for him.

Guprit Singh is a form three student, presently studying in Sekolah Lokman. Her father is a sikh without a turban and mum filipino. Her father abuses the girls in the house. He is always right, everybody else are the troublemakers. He is king. His main income comes from doing illegal business with Judges, Lawyers and the scumbags in the auction court. Guprit and her little sister had run away from home almost every year for the past six years. Everytime they run away they stay with boys and men who offer them shelter and food in exchange for sex. So how can you blame them for getting pregnant when all they are looking for is love and a safe place to live in. So if no one wants to listen to their problems and help them, how do you charge them for murder.

A woman sitting on billions and a middle class teenager do share the same problem.

NGOs and the Government should educate parents to show love and compassion to their children and not to use them as bargaining tools in their fights, educate children on safe sex, free abortion clinic and consultation and most important not to segregate them in schools like what Malacca is about to do. ACCEPTANCE, ACCEPTANCE.